Private Pay, Confidential, Individual and Couples Therapy
EFT & EMDR
Serving Clayton & Online Across North Carolina
For couples who feel:
• Stuck in the same exhausting arguments
• More like roommates than lovers
• Distant, defensive, or guarded
• Unsure how to heal after broken trust
Focus:
Using Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), we identify your negative relationship cycles, repair emotional injuries, and build a safe, resilient bond restoring intimacy and connection.
What This Work Feels Like
This work isn’t about assigning blame or picking sides—it’s about slowing down the noise to understand what is truly happening between you when things get hard. Instead of deciding who is right or wrong, we focus on helping you both feel deeply heard, safe, and understood. Over time, recurring arguments lose their intensity, you discover and are supported in practicing fresh ways to respond to one another, and you finally start feeling like you’re on the same team again.
For individuals who feel:
• Overwhelmed by anxiety or hypervigilance
• Trapped by painful past experiences or trauma
• Stuck in thoughts like “I’m not safe” or “I’m not good enough”
• Unsettled despite doing everything “right” on paper
Focus:
Using Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR), we target how traumatic or distressing memories are stored in your brain, releasing their grip on your daily life.
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT) helps you break free from internal cycles of anxiety, self-criticism, and emotional numbness by building a secure, compassionate relationship with yourself. EFIT provides the emotional safety and self-acceptance to process deep feelings, while EMDR clears the underlying traumatic charges—giving you a complete path toward lasting mental and emotional freedom.
Unsure about how to squeeze time for you into the day? Want that one hour of you-time, but can’t find it?
To help you put first things first, I offer morning, evening and weekend appointment times to accommodate your schedule. Please call if early mornings would work best for you.
Are you at a transition point? Feeling pressure and wondering if you are in the right place in life for you?
Sometimes in life, the path ahead is unclear. With supported exploration, you will rediscover the clarity you need to move forward with purpose, hope and courage.
I specialize in helping individuals and couples stay grounded on what is most important to them while finding new and more beneficial ways to navigate life’s challenges.
TAKE THE FIRST STEP
LORI DUPERON, MS, LMFTA
I am a mature clinician familiar with the long arc, twists, and turns of life. I bring a realistic perspective to mental health and wellness. My work is grounded in approaches with demonstrated effectiveness. My training includes the top organizations in the field including the International Center for Emotionally Focused Therapists (ICEEF and the international association for EMDR (EMDIRA). My education includes an MS in marriage family therapy, a law degree (JD) and a master’s in business administration (MBA) from UCLA.
My background is diverse providing many points of reference for understanding the challenges, professional and personal, you may be facing. I enjoyed a career with director-level positions in technology management and intellectual property, working and living in several countries. I have also founded several non-profits and coached small business owners.
I am also a creative and artist – in my early career, I was a professional concert dancer and choreographer touring internationally and directing an Emmy-award-winning company. And I am an immigrant from Canada to the United States and haved lived and worked in Europe.
The COVID epidemic shifted my professional focus to mental health, and I assisted in the successful roll-out of the 988 national suicide and crisis line in addition to working in COVID testing services. For six years, I also provided peer support for individuals and couples facing head and neck cancer. Inspired by the work and the strides forward I had made with my therapist, I completed graduate studies in Marriage and Family Therapy.
I provide mental health, wellness, consulting and education services for couples and clients who place a high value their privacy and mental health. I see clients in person in Clayton and online throughout North Carolina, practicing under the supervision of Tracey Frink, LMFT-S.
If you are suicidal or in crisis, please call or text 988 for confidential and immediate assistance.
Individuals
Couples
Couples Therapy – Relationship Repair
Individuals – Trauma, Relationship Loss, Persistent Depression, Anxiety, and Life Transitions
My practice is private pay. This allows us to focus on your needs and goals with increased flexibility and privacy. Former clients please reach out to me personally if financial arrangements are needed.
For individuals, if requested, I will provide a super-bill for your insurance. If you have Medicare or Medicaid coverage, I will provide referrals to meet your needs.
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International Centre for Excellence in Emotionally Focused Therapy (ICEEFT), member
American Association of Marriage Family Therapy, member
Training:
EMDR (Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing) EMDIRA certified training
Emotionally Focused Couples Therapy (EFT) – ICEEFT Externship Certification Track and Supervision
Attachment Injury Repair Model within EFT – Betrayal and Infidelity (AIRM)
Emotionally Focused Family Therapy (EFFT)
Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT)
Solution-Focused Training – Future-Oriented and Strengths-Based
Clinical Trauma: Mastering Polyvagal Theroy
Yoga for Trauma
Mindsight Approach to Interpersonal Neurobiology, Dr. Dan Siegal
Professional Course in Positive Neuroplasticity, Dr. Rick Hanson
LivingWorks safeTALK Suicide Prevention
Vibrant 988 Lifeline Crisis Training
Non-Violent Communication Training
Mindful Self-Compassion Training (MSC), Dr. Kristin Neff



